Letter – 1


I don’t know how you are. I hope you are fine. It’s been over three weeks I last heard your voice or have seen you. I don’t know how this happened, I just trusted your mother will not use you. I am sorry I could not save you this ordeal. If I don’t get to see you, I hope one day you will read the letters I will post here. Remember, there is not a moment I don’t miss you.

Today, let me tell you about your first dance. I remember that day so well. You had just started crawling. You had discovered a new found freedom after being only able to move side to side for almost 7-8 months. It was difficult to hold you down to one place. It was fun to see you crawl around. That day after work, I was on the sofa trying to learn my guitar. You were just in from of my crawling from one corner to another. As I was playing, I suddenly notice you stop and start swaying your hips. Ahh!! What a site. You don’t believe me? Watch it for yourself –

Now you believe me? :))

With all the love and hugs and tears,


25 thoughts on “Letter – 1”

  1. See, I felt like sharing certain facts, 1st ly the Indian legal system always provides custody or guardianship to the mothers or any near relationship female member for a child
    atleast upto 6 years, however the age may vary depending upon the situations and merits of case.
    You just cannot simple snatch a child from a mom.
    Now regarding your fight, do you have any female member who can take care of the child equally like her mom. As per I know the family system and culture in USA is completely different to that of India. If so ask your advocate to file a case claiming custody or guardianship for your child to that person if she’s staying with you.
    It will be better if you clear what other claims your wife want instead of your child and what are her complains against you.
    Or if no other ways kindly wait for your child to grow up to choose with whom he wants to stay.
    But at least try once more to be together, settle out matters, as a child needs both the parents as they grow.
    And while you accuse the police station, the Court kindly mention the names and details of jurisdiction too.
    So that the facts seems more real.
    Being an Indian citizen it is also impossible to know why a woman took a drastic step to return India from States, what are her allegations and whether she was subject to any mental or physical exploitation.
    Please kindly both of you practice introspection, trying to know what you actually want because ultimately it’s the child who will suffer due to this.
    It is easy to win but will it lead to actual happiness for any of you. Think because it’s your life, none of the public or Mee too supporters are going to help you out in your daily life.
    And if you feel nothing is working kindly both of you be separated and settle with the partners of your choice whom you feel will understand situations.

    1. Thanks Satodeepa for your honest comments. I took almost 11 months to reply to you. But you are right Indian legal system is heavily biased towards mother even to our constitution says right to equality. To top it there are societal biases which immediately thinks that the man must have done something wrong. I had to fight both ways. But finally the HC ordered for my son to be immediately returned to me. You see in todays world a father is equally capable of taking care of his child. It is not about the parents at all. A child’s fundamental right is to access to both parents. If one of the parent is trying to snatch that away, that means they are thinking of everything else except the well being of the child.

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